After Farahan’s dwelling was allegedly vandalized by Javid’s husband, Tommy Feight, earlier this week, the Shahs of Sundown star is opening up about why the previous BFFs’ “30-year friendship” is irreparable.
“I can by no means be associates together with her once more, as a result of first she despatched her little minion to return do her soiled work, then, in my view she despatched her husband to return vandalize my property and threaten my life,” Farahan, 45, tells PEOPLE about Javid, 46, and Feight.
LAPD officers took a vandalism report however Feight has not been charged with any crime. A consultant for Javid and Feight had no remark when requested about Farahan’s allegations.
“What’s subsequent? That is now past actuality TV, that is real-life stuff that I’m coping with. I’m coping with restraining orders, and I’m coping with 1000’s and 1000’s of property harm. That is stuff you could’t return from. You’ll be able to’t undo this,” Farahan says.
“Plus, it’s not like she reached out to me and apologized! If it had been me and my husband had gone to somebody’s dwelling and vandalized their dwelling, the very first thing I’d do is choose up the telephone and I’d name and say, ‘Hey, I’m so sorry, I do know you don’t imagine me proper now however I’m devastated for what my husband has achieved to you, I apologize from the underside of my coronary heart. I’ll make the monetary state of affairs proper, let me know the way a lot harm he did, I’ll lower you a examine for 10 occasions that quantity. … Please don’t file a restraining order, please don’t pursue any authorized motion.’ I’d be so remorseful if my husband had gone to somebody’s dwelling and vandalized it, I’d be so remorseful if my husband had referred to as and threatened your life, I’d be doing every little thing in my energy to make it proper, however it’s been radio-silent,” says Farahan.
“So, clearly, she’s not remorseful and clearly she is aware of what she did was horrible,” he says. “I’m speechless, I’m devastated.”
On Monday, Farahan’s request for a restraining order towards Feight was granted in Los Angeles Superior Courtroom, in accordance with court docket paperwork obtained by The Blast. Based on the paperwork, Feight has been ordered to remain at the least 100 yards away from Farahan, his dwelling, his job, his car and his husband, Adam Farahan.
The order comes after Feight allegedly threatened to kill Farahan at his Los Angeles County dwelling on Sunday.
“At 2:18 p.m. on 5/19 he referred to as and threatened my life by telephone and at 2:34 p.m. he vandalized our dwelling,” Farahan claims within the paperwork. “Adam Farahan was with me and there’s video of the occasion.”
In video footage obtained by The Blast, a person is seen throwing pots, crops and out of doors decor throughout a entrance yard earlier than he proceeds to hop the fence. “At 2:18 p.m. he referred to as and mentioned he was going to kill me. At 2:34 p.m. he was caught on video vandalizing my dwelling,” Farahan claims within the paperwork.
Javid did tackle the state of affairs in an announcement to E! Information” “It deeply saddens me that my former pal is battling together with his demons and has determined to go this low to harm me. The extra he goes down this darkish path, the tougher it will likely be for him to get well from it.”
Feight additionally seemingly addressed the incident in an Instagram put up on Wednesday, sharing a throwback picture of his spouse within the hospital after she gave beginning to their son.
“That is how my spouse spent her 1st 2 days as a mother – it was definitely probably the most terrifying expertise I’ve ever been by, i’ve by no means felt so alone and helpless and even now I can’t consider this expertise with out breaking down – she is a warrior and stronger then any ladies I do know – she is my Queen my hero and my universe,” he wrote.
Feight continued: “I’ll let NO ONE disrespect reduce and devalue all that she went by to carry our son into this world – i took vows to guard her and preserve her secure and I’ll do this till my final dying breath #tillthedirt #myqueen #smother #khaleesi #bendtheknee.”
That is how my spouse spent her 1st 2 days as a mother – it was definitely probably the most terrifying expertise I’ve ever been by, i’ve by no means felt so alone and helpless and even now I can’t consider this expertise with out breaking down – she is a warrior and stronger then any ladies I do know – she is my Queen my hero and my universe- I’ll let NO ONE disrespect reduce and devalue all that she went by to carry our son into this world – i took vows to guard her and preserve her secure and I’ll do this till my final dying breath #tillthedirt #myqueen #smother #khaleesi #bendtheknee
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Bravo had no remark.
Based on Farahan, the harm that was allegedly achieved by the hands of Feight could possibly be as excessive as $10,000.
“He jumped the fence into our yard, he destroyed all of the potted crops, there was terrariums that Adam had created by hand, there was a cactus he’d simply purchased for me, this actually uncommon cactus plant that you just noticed him throw throughout,” Farahan alleges to PEOPLE. “And never solely that, we had simply purchased all of that out of doors furnishings to the tune of $10,000, positioned there for our housewarming celebration that we had final month. So, he broken all of that stuff, he destroyed all of that stuff.”
However earlier than Feight allegedly vandalized the fact star’s dwelling, Farahan says his friendship with Javid was already on the rocks.
“Truthfully, I feel that she believed that I used to be the ring-leader of our pal circle and he or she needed to be the ring-leader of our pal circle,” Farahan claims.
He additionally alleges that Javid tried to sabotage his marriage with Adam whereas she was on bedrest.
“She had lots of time while she was on bedrest and sadly my husband made associates with this actually disreputable one that wasn’t an excellent human being. Adam and him acquired very shut they usually exchanged some inappropriate textual content messages forwards and backwards — like GIFs of bare males, or GIFs of this, that, and the opposite — and MJ determined to make use of him to return for my relationship, and that’s what set in movement a sequence of occasions, as a result of I actually was speaking together with her up till she went into labor,” Farahan tells PEOPLE. “We had been texting each other, she texted me saying she wasn’t taking any guests, after which as soon as she had the infant I used to be speaking together with her. I used to be going to go see her, however then I noticed that she had wound up one in all her associates to return for me and my marriage and my relationship and the man really mentioned ‘Sure, MJ put me as much as come and do all of this soiled work,’ ” he claims.
Farahan remembers a day that he referred to as Javid to debate frustrations in his marriage. Whereas he remembers her “speaking me off the ledge,” she allegedly twisted the data he instructed her.
“Little do I do know, afterward, she would use these issues towards me to say I’ve a tumultuous marriage or I’m having marital issues or regardless of the case could also be, when in all actuality, she within the second was a extremely nice pal and he or she talked me off the ledge and he or she allowed me to see every little thing by the gray lens versus it being simply black or white,” he remembers.
A supply instructed PEOPLE on Monday that there’s rigidity with Javid and her castmates.
“Mercedes goes by loads surrounding Shahs and the solid,” the supply mentioned. “She’s fed up.”
“Earlier than she went into the hospital every little thing was advantageous between Reza and her, however through the time that she was in ICU and intubated, Reza blocked her on social media and by no means reached out as soon as,” the supply claimed, noting her troublesome labor.
To that, Farahan says, “Completely I didn’t reply or attain out as soon as! Once I realized that she despatched her homosexual minion to accuse my husband of sexual harassment and infidelity, completely when the individual you wound as much as come assault me and take my character down and destroy my marriage, when your minion comes and says, ‘That is what MJ did’ … in fact I’m not going to return go to you!”
The rift has been painful for Farahan. Not solely have they starred alongside one another on the Bravo actuality sequence since 2012, however they’ve additionally identified one another since childhood.
“Adam and I lay in mattress crying at evening pondering How may somebody that I handled so effectively — I actually scattered her father’s ashes together with her … I used to be attempting to easy every little thing over and ensure her wedding ceremony went off with no hitch,” says Farahan. “I purchased her a Cartier bracelet, I wrote them a $2,500 examine for his or her wedding ceremony, and that is how she repays me.”
Says Farahan, “Not solely am I mourning the dying of a 30-year friendship, I’m strolling round in a daze not understanding how somebody who simply had a child could be prepared to place his life and his freedom in danger by going to somebody’s dwelling with a bat and vandalizing their property. I’m in a state of shock, I can’t imagine it.”
Whereas Farahan is heartbroken over the sequence of occasions, he’s prepared to go away the drama between him and Javid prior to now.
“The truth that she’s not remorseful breaks my coronary heart, makes me cry once I’m on my own,” he says. “And you realize what? It makes me know that it’s the proper factor to shut this chapter and transfer on.”
Went to the courthouse to file some paperwork and we discovered this candy little nugget on the curb! Adam’s taking him to the vet! New addition to the household? #shahs #shahsofsunset #reza #abitchlost50lbs #rezabeobsessed #bravo #cats #kittens #kitten #kittensofinstagram #catsofinstagram
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Though Farahan says “it’s actually been the toughest factor I’ve ever gone by,” an surprising pleasure got here into his and Adam’s world amid the turmoil. Whereas going to the court docket on Monday, the couple discovered a kitten on the curb, who they’ve since introduced dwelling and named Bugsy.
“The one shining gentle in all of this was yesterday when Adam and I went to the court docket to file the restraining order, we discovered a kitten and we’re so blessed to have this little angel come into our lives on a day once we had been coping with one thing so heavy and unfavourable,” says Farahan.
He provides: “So, we acquired slightly man named Bugsy out of it that we’re head over heels in love with, so I suppose there was a silver lining.”